~*hard to know where*~
~*so we have to try*~
~*but will a wrong step give you a second chance?*~

i went to auntie house today and i came across this article that someone got from Johor today. Ya. apparently someone so free went back in to johor to do her hair. there is this girl who met this guy by chance, they are living in different states in Malaysia. so they got togther when the girl accidentally dial the wrong number and fate brought them together..

after some time, they got together on the phone and sms without meeting up. no chance to meet up. they live far apart. though they did exchange pictures of their own.

then when they are togther, the guy start to work and the girl gets real understanding. she no longer demand that much from him, knowing that he is tired from his work, he will tell him to go and rest and not need to talk to her on the phone. not everyday anymore, not like how they used to be.

then as time goes by, seems like her understanding and ti tie are going the wrong way.and what is the ultimate result? they broke up after a fight.

so how to draw the lines?

i bet this is something difficult for all girls. how to be understanding and yet not let the person be used to not having you around? every guy is nice when they are not together with you yet. but...

so accept the fact that people change and accept the fact that guys are usually more obsessed with games than girls are.

so should all girls be understanding and let the guys have their game before getting back to them? in the life of people around me. the guy can go out as and when he like. but the girl?he is always there to haunt him. ya. this is a bit way too far, but maybe that is just a form of concern? at least he look for you. this is also maybe the guy lead a discipline life. that is what i have being hearing from her though

so. who knows where to draw the line between being understanding and being caring and concern.?

what will you get from overly understanding?

totally not bothering the guy and let him not realise that your are actually shifting further and further apart?

~*nothing much to say*~