.::to someone::.

~*to a friend*~
~*something i realised and learnt*~

i never believe in friends forever... people around me... especially people from my current class were so shocked when they heard that because i think i am the first among their friends who dare to say that...

i didnt really know the consequences... but i know people may start doubting whether i am true to them...

at times i thought... maybe time will change my thinking because it may be possible for you to keep contact with a friend until you die... but as i was waiting for that day to come to prove my belief wrong, i realised something... the weak bond between people...

i ended alot of friendships ever since the day i know what is going on around me... people come into my life and leave me... i dont know whether i should be sad that they leave or should i be happy that they taught me something...

i saw many couples ending their relationship... even the love between them is that weak to keep things going on forever... yes... that may not be the case for all couple... but how many percentage of married couples had only one love in their entire life?

there is nothing that bond people together except that urge to find companion and the need for interactions to add colour to our life... the possible bond could be family ties, friendship, love, brotherhood, etc.

but how many of the above last except family ties? even family ties can come to an end sometimes...

people, usually friends, are suppose to enter and exit your life... that is what friends are meant to be... if you have the same one old friend for your entire life, wouldnt it be the same as you living your life alone? because there is no changes at all when you faced that only friend of yours... you know what the other party is thinking after being together for long...

it is normal to have friends leaving you... they wouldnt stay forever... but that doesnt mean you should lock yourself up and protect yourself from all the possible heartache when a friend leave you...

running away is not the best way to know how to face it... only when you faced it, you will know how to handle it...

as i am typing all these, i dont even know whether i will still be alive tomorrow... life it like that... why fear about the future when you know noting about it? why dont you just accept the present and stay happy... even if your friends were to leave you one day you have no regret... at least your were happy once... at least your played a part in each others life...

who should we blame for the weak bond between people? how long is long enough to stabilise a friendship? who can set a regulation to that? who can tell you that 1 year is too short a time to have a stable friendship? even if we were only friends for just 3 days, what matters most is still what we went through together... so that apply to 1 year... (not to say we went through much to gether... not so much but enough for be to not bear to let go)

maybe you are just thinking that now is a better time to let go than the future because you are not that sad now... you can still control... how are you suppose to handle when you end your friendship like 1 year down the road? but this friendship started because of wo people... why are you deciding for your friend to put an end to things? why in the end you are the one deciding the fate of the friendship?

i dont know who to blame for the weak bond betwen people... but for all i know... i treasure what i have now... because i know there are no friends forever... because i know that someday somehow your will leave me... so why bother about the future when i know nothing about the future? and why trouble myself with things in the future when i have no say over the future?

will you give me and us the chance to treasure our friendship? i dont know what i can do but i want the usual us back... knowing that at least i tried to keep my friends with me will let me know that at least i am not bond to my belief... at least i tried... we all may not have the time... but before we have the time, please dont put an end to things so fast on your side...

please think things through because i treasure the friendship... i hope the few of your can accompany me down the jorney of my life for a longer time instead of just 1 year...
somethings cannot be forgotten just like that...